Why your tasting room keeps booking the cheapest option
The reservation page is usually the reason, and it is one of the easier things to fix.

You built a seated tasting worth driving for. You added a private tour, a food pairing, a library flight. Then you look at the week's reservations and almost all of them are the basic tasting, booked by people who will not join the club and may not come back.
It is easy to read that as a demand problem. Usually it is a page problem.
The cheapest booking is not a cheap guest
A first-time visitor who books the entry-level flight is not telling you they are unwilling to spend. They are telling you they did not have enough information to choose anything else.
Most people arriving at a winery site have never been to your winery. They do not know what a flight is versus a seated tasting, whether a tour includes the tasting, or whether the food pairing is a snack or a meal. Faced with several options they cannot distinguish, they do the rational thing and pick the cheapest one. It is the lowest-risk way to find out what you are like.
The problem is what that does next. By the time they arrive, you have already trained them to expect the minimum. The staff are now trying to upgrade someone mid-visit who has mentally committed to a forty-minute stop.
Your reservation page assumes knowledge the guest does not have
Open your own reservation page and read it as someone who has never heard of you. Most winery booking pages are structured like an internal price list: name of experience, duration, price, a sentence of description, book now.
That layout works for a returning guest who knows exactly what they want. It fails a first-timer, because it asks them to already understand the difference between four things in order to choose between them.
What that person actually wants to know is simpler. How long will this take. Will I be sitting down. Is there food. Is this the one people recommend. Can I bring my mother who does not drink.
Answer those in guest language, in the description, at the point of decision, and the mix of what gets booked changes without you touching a price.
Put the better experience where the decision happens
This is not about hiding the standard tasting. Some guests genuinely want a quick stop and they should be able to have one.
It is about sequence. If the seated tasting is the experience you are proudest of and the one with the margin, it should appear where the decision is actually made, not three clicks deeper under a page called Experiences. Describe it in terms of what happens rather than what is included: where you sit, what you see, who walks you through it, how long you will be there.
The booking page is a sales conversation, not a price list. The guest should be able to tell what makes one experience different from another without opening four tabs.
The wine club conversation starts before they leave
The best moment to invite someone to join the club is during the visit or immediately after it, when the wine is in their hand and the memory is fresh. Most wineries put the club on its own page and hope people go looking.
Very few do. The club page is usually the least-visited page on a winery website, and the people who find it are the ones who were already going to join.
The stronger pattern is to build membership into the moments that already exist. The confirmation email. The reminder the day before. The follow-up two days after the visit, while they still remember the wine they liked. And a club page that answers the questions people actually hesitate over: how much per shipment, how often, can I skip, how do I cancel.
Nobody joins a club they cannot picture leaving.
Saturdays sell themselves. Tuesdays need a reason.
A tasting room that only optimizes for peak days leaves most of its calendar empty and most of its fixed costs uncovered.
The fix is rarely a blanket discount, which mostly moves guests who would have paid full price into a cheaper slot. It is a specific offer aimed at the guest who can actually come midweek: locals, retirees, remote workers, people building an itinerary around a Wednesday.
That guest needs a reason that is not just cheaper. A winemaker walking the barrel room. A quieter seated tasting with no event noise. A pairing that only runs on slow days. Then the website and the email need to say so plainly, with visible availability and a booking path that takes one click.
What to change first
If you only do one thing, rewrite the descriptions on your reservation page in the language a first-time guest would use, and move the experience you are proudest of above the cheapest one.
The goal is not to sell more tastings. It is to bring in the guest who will still be a customer in two years.
By Well. Visited.